I don’t think most of the adults on libsoftiktoks are child abusers, but I definitely put almost all of them in this category. Lonely people looking for validation, who don’t have enough money or wherewithal to subscribe to a Substack and pay for a subscription.
I don't think they are abusive in the same way as someone who commits sexual or physical abuse, but there is something really fucked up about the way some of the teachers or parents seem to be using the kids in their care for validation or narcissistic supply, and I think some of it could definitely be classed as emotionally abusive at least
We did have one pill popper teacher in my high school who kind of similarly was seeking validation from kids. Wanted to be cool so bad she showed up high and drunk every day. My last year the video production class stole some of her muumuus and made a movie where they dressed up as her and took some flinstone vitamins and went on a psychedelic journey. So I guess they at least learned something.
I don’t know if we can really fully stop crazy people getting jobs as teachers because people are crazy and sometimes they just go crazy but I do wish there was a bit more power for someone to yank them out of the classroom when they start to meltdown.
Adults may be physically mature and not mentally mature. The self absorption levels are incredible.
I don’t think most of the adults on libsoftiktoks are child abusers, but I definitely put almost all of them in this category. Lonely people looking for validation, who don’t have enough money or wherewithal to subscribe to a Substack and pay for a subscription.
I don't think they are abusive in the same way as someone who commits sexual or physical abuse, but there is something really fucked up about the way some of the teachers or parents seem to be using the kids in their care for validation or narcissistic supply, and I think some of it could definitely be classed as emotionally abusive at least
Fair.
We did have one pill popper teacher in my high school who kind of similarly was seeking validation from kids. Wanted to be cool so bad she showed up high and drunk every day. My last year the video production class stole some of her muumuus and made a movie where they dressed up as her and took some flinstone vitamins and went on a psychedelic journey. So I guess they at least learned something.
I don’t know if we can really fully stop crazy people getting jobs as teachers because people are crazy and sometimes they just go crazy but I do wish there was a bit more power for someone to yank them out of the classroom when they start to meltdown.